tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8949374585602527242.post8737284379557516157..comments2023-04-12T08:10:00.305-07:00Comments on Birds of a Feather: breaking the tabooAlexahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17345796589198879584noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8949374585602527242.post-31789983704847237062013-07-31T10:47:50.731-07:002013-07-31T10:47:50.731-07:00I am so overwhelmed right now. I just wept readin...I am so overwhelmed right now. I just wept reading this. I have not experienced what you have but having Charlie being a "threatened miscarriage" for 20 weeks and bleeding and cramping that whole time I began to get a slimmer of understanding of what women go through when we miscarry. My heart aches for you. You are a mom the moment you become pregnant and so grateful you were bold in expressing your feelings. I, also, was upset going through that period because miscarriage for some reason is looked at as no big deal by some. The ER workers just told me "no big deal... you will have another." It is a big deal. Its real and its hard and you need to mourn. And... you should not feel like you have to hide those feelings of loss. Of course you will have more but like you said, your next child will be #3. You have given a voice for those who couldnt express. Just know that your little one is waiting to be raised by you, his dear sweet momma, in the eternities. You are a strong, loving, expressive woman and so glad to call you my friend. xoxo Katehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16139277031396153984noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8949374585602527242.post-41060473709757768042013-07-23T13:14:38.447-07:002013-07-23T13:14:38.447-07:00Lexy,
I really appreciated your candid thoughts an...Lexy,<br />I really appreciated your candid thoughts and feelings. I think your expressions are shared by many of us. Thank you for so eloquently describing this experience. I've been through it 3 times, myself. However, only the first one effected me the way you described. And it was prior to carrying a baby full term. My worst fear was not having that ability. As you know, I have now carried 4 babies full term without complication (except that they get huge and don't come on their own...). I'm so grateful for the peace that came to you and know how timely Heavenly Father sends His love and peace! You are amazing. Such an example to all who associate with you, in person and via blog. Thank you again. I needed your words today. I hope the healing continues for you. And what a wonderful blessing to know that we will have the opportunity to raise these children in the future! Loves to you.PBJKLI Usseryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02567552992398005137noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8949374585602527242.post-144634780398575462013-07-22T18:38:22.228-07:002013-07-22T18:38:22.228-07:00So very sorry for your loss, Alexa. I personally h...So very sorry for your loss, Alexa. I personally havent experienced a miscarriage, but with how quickly you bond and attach to that little baby in the days after a positive test, i can only imagine the intensity of your pain. I appreciate your courage in sharing your experience. Hilaryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11639431531441972672noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8949374585602527242.post-61629865236055927682013-07-22T18:37:18.506-07:002013-07-22T18:37:18.506-07:00Lexi,
I am so sorry, we really should get together...Lexi,<br />I am so sorry, we really should get together as we have been going through the same thing at almost exactly the same time!! Mine happened just a week later, 4th of july weekend, and I am still not back to normal.<br />This is my 3rd miscarriage, but the only one that has occurred without a D&C, so I am new at this, and not liking it one bit! <br />I agree that it seems there is no one to talk to about it! It is such a sensitive subject it's hard to put into words the feelings and emotions you go through.<br />On a positive note, I obviously have more children, so keep your head up even though sometimes it is hard. It is comforting to know that Heavenly Father is in control and knows what is best for us!<br />Way to go for being brave and expressing what you have gone through I am sure it will be a strength to many!tchutchinshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17329554752914065388noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8949374585602527242.post-23231676833744577342013-07-22T18:27:44.530-07:002013-07-22T18:27:44.530-07:00Katelyn! I did not mean to delete your comment. Yo...Katelyn! I did not mean to delete your comment. Your words were sweet and supportive. Thank you so much! Alexahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17345796589198879584noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8949374585602527242.post-71344006593422466562013-07-22T16:00:47.533-07:002013-07-22T16:00:47.533-07:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Katelynhttp://sohewhistled.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.com